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How do traumatic experiences affect the idea of man and the worldview?
“The worst
thing is to teach a child with methods based on fear, power, and authority,
because then openness and trust will be destroyed. They only achieve the wrong
kind of submission.”
- Albert
Einstein
Foreword
A person's
subjective life experiences affect behavior and brain structure and function.
In this article, I will first discuss the development and adaptation of the
brain. I then move on to describe threats experienced by an individual and
their effect on the brain structures of fight-escape-defensive behavior. Next,
I will deal with punishment and lying. Then I move from traumatic experiences
to coping strategies. I deal with psychic flexibility, striving for
non-violence and truth, and telepathy; the shaping of the idea of man and
worldview as a result of traumatic experiences.
The healthy
ones do not need a healer, but the sick (Matt. 9:12) or those who feel themselves
sick. And one does not have to be ill to feel unpleasant feelings such as
anxiety, suffering, or torment. Whether a person is ill or healthy according to
the concept, he must feel the need to improve his condition in order to be
helped. This paper is for him who feels the need to understand the development
of the idea of man and worldview, as well as suffering, and to seek a cure for
distress and ambiguity.
I present
my thoughts as an individual, vulnerable person, as each of us is. The medical education
I have acquired and received and my career as a physician for forty years has certainly
affected my evaluations. I have not acquired the nominal qualification of a
therapist or, in particular, a trauma therapist. However, my ideation have been
particularly affected by two fundamental insights related to trauma therapy.
These are, firstly, the structural breakdown (dissociation) of personality and
the belief in long-term, even permanent, structural damage to the brain caused
by trauma. Without these two basic concepts, one cannot explain the world of
perceived chaos caused by trauma experiences. Just as biological life cannot be
understood without the theory of evolution, so the experience of trauma and its
consequences cannot be understood without the structural dissociation of
personality and the organic, structural, and functional changes in the nervous
system.
Introduction
Everyone’s
life isn’t just about dancing with roses. Some of us may experience crippling
anxiety, the desolation of loneliness, unworthiness, the horror or compulsive
thoughts of a trapped person, movements and series of movements, intolerable
guilt, and shame that makes the experiencer feel the compelling need to sink
into the slit of the earth. These states are repeated, become familiar, pop up
to visit without an invitation, and do not follow the order to leave but linger
and leave only when they happen to decide for themselves. They arrive, these
old acquaintances, whenever and often at the most inopportune time. Entry bans
imposed on them do not help. In order to find out the reasons for the visits,
it is necessary to make a study trip to the guests' own countries, the
birthplaces of the guests, to get acquainted with the conditions in their home.
The goal of the excursion is to help these guests to stay under the home rafter
or, better yet, prevent the birth of new guests altogether.
An
excursionist need not imagine finding the stone of the wise, the ultimate
unchanging truth, for the causes of heavy experiences and thoughts. Inventing
and broadening new perspectives may be enough for every moment. The future sets
its own needs. A useful starting point for exploring painful experiences can be
seen as a view of a person on the stage of his or her own life, as an actor
regulating the individual in his or her own environment. One must be able to
survive, obtain food and shelter, and avoid dangers such as being beaten, even
eaten. In addition, he must breed, at least from the point of view of the
survival of his species. These are the basic conditions for life to continue.
Behavior, and also explicitly subjective feelings and states, should be seen to
serve these purposes. The critically arranged and tested concept of evolution
and individual development are frameworks without which it is difficult to
explain our subject and our life in general.
On the development and shaping the brain
The
developmental stage after human birth into adulthood is exceptionally long
compared to other mammals. During long childhood and adolescence our behavioral
regulator, the central nervous system, is significantly shaped. For example,
about thirty percent of brain cells die within the first - two years of life.
In terms of individual development, ontogenetically, the last maturation does
not take place until the age of a couple of decades. The frontal lobes and
their connections to other parts of the brain develop latest. The horse's foal
is able to walk within the first hours after birth. Man is not able to do the
same until about the age of one year. The horse's youth is likely to end by the
age of a couple of years. The human brain, like a horse, is shaped by
interactions with the environment, especially with other members of its specie.
A man does not become a man with good social abilities alone or in very
deficient growth environments. Man learns to act as man only in the company of other
men and a horse as a horse only in the company of other horses. Real or
imaginary examples of failed growth can be found in wolf children, a girl
growing up in a barrel, and in the orphanages in Ceaușescu’s Romania. The way
in which social relations take place is crucial for human development and is
reflected in the future subjective sense of well-being, intellectual level,
behavior and worldview and the idea of man.
The
realization of different human functions relies on the brain structures
inherent in that activity. Each activity has its own main structures that work
in collaboration with other structures. (Hormones, oxidation state, carbon
dioxide, sugar, etc. also act as common shaping factors.) These structures and
their function develop and form individually in their own time, according to
the phylogenetic order. They are shaped by an individual’s interactive
experiences. Current neuroscience publications are flooded with the mechanisms
of brain modification and their temporal duration, behavior, experiential
counterparts, from the brain region level to cellular, subcellular, and
molecular levels. A closer look at them in this paper would take the
presentation too far away from the main theme.
The long
helplessness of a human child and the living at the full mercy of caregivers
requires special caring-attachment behavior (and caring-attachment experience)
on the part of the caregiver and experience and security experience on the part
of the child. Care includes proximity and taking care of food, drink, cleanness
and warmth, as well as protection from accidents and attacking animals and
people. In the beginning, the baby demands that the needs be met immediately
when the need arises. Learning to tolerate the fulfilment of a need is an
essential part of a child’s growth and predicts future success in life.
Repeated disregard or even punishment of a child’s needs for attention-seeking
behaviors, such as crying, obviously structurally damages the brain and forms
the basis for the experience of being rejected, which later manifests itself in
many contexts as a stereotypical experience as well as behavior in
relationships.
Adverse experiences during childhood and adolescence
1. Fight-escape-submit experience and behavior
The success
in resisting being beaten or eaten and avoiding other dangers is a vital
condition for a individual. Thus, learning about threats takes place in the
brain quickly and permanently, otherwise new threats could be anticipated and
avoided unsatisfactorily. A human child, like an animal, tries to avoid threats
and, if she does not succeed, defends herself by fighting. If the fight is not
successful either, or the resistance is overwhelming, the child will submit to
what is necessary. A physically punished child is paralyzed in terror by
stinging strokes on her buttocks. She is alleged to have done something wrong. She
feels she is of wrong sort in the mind of the punisher. With her insufficient
experience and undeveloped brain, a child cannot comprehend, let alone analyze,
her whipping. Understanding the reason and unreasonableness of the punishment
is not facilitated by the probable fact that those close who see the abuse may
not defend the one under the punishment or they accept the incident, or even
call for more hurtful violence (the buckle of the belt). The event will drill definitely
in the small brain. No matter if the biological mechanism were an increasing or
decreasing of synaptic weight, protein synthesis initiation, the creation of
new synapses and neurons, histone acetylation, DNA methylation, or all these or
other known or as yet unknown mechanisms, it is difficult to question the
preservation of the event as neural structure and the tendency that the experience
of the event will easily reactivate spontaneously. Even if the incident itself
is not remembered later, panic pops up in a later life to visit without prior
notice, often in the most inappropriate context. The guest demands all the
attention and the host is not given the opportunity for any other activities;
the guest takes all the attention. The host does not get even one word thought
or said. The brainstem activity that underlies defensive behavior is
self-sufficient, completely shutting down higher-level brain functions such as
the connections to the frontal lobes that regulate defensive behavior. The
guest leaves after a moment but calls his friends anxiety and shame as troublesome
companion to the host. As all this happens in the context of a host’s social
interaction, the consequences are or can be catastrophic. (Van Der Hart O,
Nijenhuis E and Steele K. The Haunted Self. Structural Dissociation and the
Treatment of Chronic Traumatization.)
2. Raising by punishment
In their
attempt to raise their children to behave acceptably or to eradicate
reprehensible behavior, parents have not always been or have not been able to
take into account current methods of developmental and educational psychology.
Parents seem to have known the biblical teaching, “He that spareth his rod
hateth his son” (Proverbs 13:24). So they have rushed to beat their children in
order to make them good. The law prohibiting corporal punishment of children
did not enter into force in Finland until the beginning of 1984. Not only was
corporal punishment largely accepted in post-World War II Finland, but
reprimanding, blaming, humiliating, defeating, denying the expression of a
child's feelings (you are shouting like volves in the wilderness) and insulting
shame (shame yourself, you good-for-nothing) were accepted. The inherent
tendency of children to interact with each other was also not always supported
(villages walker). Although, in return, a child could get support that promoted
her self-esteem, received acceptance verbally and nonverbally, the scale was
too often tilted towards the blaming side of upbringing. Nor was the school
system better; teaching focused on finding mistakes, obeying, and subjugating.
Both a
child and an adult seek approval and support. The brain’s action loops of
experiencing worthlessness are built in the small brain as she feels repeatedly
lacking the attention and approval she desires. The feeling of worthlessness
can be enhanced by emphasizing the child’s profound insignificance,
incompetence, and inability. Moreover, belonging to a poor, considered as worthless
and simple people, does not improve the child's sense of self-worth. The theory
of social and economic evolution with a strong value charge was deeply rooted
in Finnish society in the 20th century, with the scale of values ranging from
hunter-gatherers to pastoralists and farmers, continuing to the urban industrial
and merchant class. At the top are learned, money-rich and influential
politicians. Fathers who returned from World War II and mothers who experienced
the war earned their living for themselves and their children mainly through
horse-drawn farming. This majority did not receive much appreciation from the
townspeople, especially those in the capital. Poverty in rural and urban areas
was not highly valued. Current terms for deprivation include for example down
and outs or family poverty. Being underestimated, even despised and ignored is
not conducive to self-esteem, which in turn can lead to an inability to say and
express one’s feelings.
3. Lying
Lying is
specifically related to human social activity. Admittedly, man can also lie to
himself, either consciously or unconsciously. Man has developed an exact
“lie-revealing machinery” that combines and interprets fine subtleties in the
behavior of others. One can subjectively know the truth of a matter but can lie
to others. A child, like an adult, can keep his wishes true and believe in his
dream reality. The beautification of truth can rise from the fear of shame.
Fear of punishment also tempts you to tell white lies. Good relationships are
based on trust. Therefore, it is important that the motives and behavior of a
fellow human being are predictable. One must share truthful information.
Confidence can be lost because of just one lie and it can be that a cheater
does not get new trust built despite persistent trying. It is difficult for a
child, a few years old, to distinguish between a truth and a fairy tale, which
is why a parent should guide to the truth through interaction and empathy with
the child. Reproach, blaming, intimidation, or even physical punishment leads
to feelings of rejection, loneliness, shame, and injustice, as well as curling
up in oneself. A child can become frightened. Reactions are exacerbated in a child
who has tendency to feel easily guilty and who is pronouncedly responsible. The
situation may be exacerbated by appointment (schizophrenic).
A child may
feel unable to think or do things that parents and other people will not accept
or despise. He knows he will be punished if he tells his thoughts or others
become aware of his actions. However, the child's thoughts and actions are
basically harmless, related to normal development, but extremely important for
the child. A punished child drifts into her own worlds in fear. His undeveloped
function of abstraction is incapable of dealing with perceived injustice. The
lonely, emotionally orphaned, easily sets excessive expectations for budding
friendships or social relationships, and as the relationship breaks down, he
drifts into more and more intolerable loneliness.
The child
has learned, through punishment, loneliness, and prosecution, or at the threat
of these, to know things he or she should not do, nor should he or she think or
feel. On the other hand, he has learned other things that are permissible to
feel, think, and do. He looks outside for rules and tries to fit his own
feelings, thoughts, and actions into them. Many congregations, be it political
or religious such as reformism like Lestadianism, require children to conform
to their doctrines and norms of behavior. An instilled and ingrained compulsion
to follow the rules of authority can remain the undertone shackling free and
deliberate thinking. Reducing the sticking to compliance is a proven challenge
and it cannot be promised that this weighty self-education work will be a
complete success.
The impact of adverse experiences on some aspects of the idea of man and worldview
1. People are malevolent
The more injuring
an experience is and the closer person produce it, the more certainly the
experience will be stored in the brain and affect our future perception. The effect
takes place unconsciously and this unconscious part stays mostly uncovered by our
conscious self. Humans (and animals in suitable areas) develop sensitive
“senses” (“antennas”) to detect a threat in an area of violence, aggression,
nullification, half-heartedness, rejection, and so on. Attention and
interpretations thus skew in the direction of the threat. The operating model
solidifies practically unchanged and thus petrifies the idea of man. If a
person finds out that she or he has in perceptions sensitized herself/himself to,
for example, aggression, he or she may consider in his or her observations to
minimize the traits of aggression in fellow human beings. Further, the
attenuation of aggression assessment is overemphasised with the consequence
that danger signals are ignored. Traumatic experiences lead to a rigidity of
flexible assessment.
2. Violence - non-violence
The problem
of physical violence plagues the mind of the person who experienced the
violence. As the capacity for abstraction develops, or without a conscious
process of abstraction, he may find the solution to the problem of violence to
be the transfer of the consequences of violence to fellow human beings; he can
himself become a perpetrator. A sad current example is dictator Vladimir Putin.
According to Helsingin Sanomat Monthly Supplement No. 601 (4/22), Putin's
“Father did not spare the joke. Putin was lashed repeatedly for diverse causes.
Once, a teacher visited Putin’s home because he wanted to discuss the boy’s bad
attitude at school. And the father said, ‘What can I to do with it? After all,
I can't beat the boy to the point of his death’.” Today, we can read how
ruthlessly and brutally he is now disciplining both his own people and the
people of Ukraine. Words are incapable of telling the immense anxiety, pain,
and agony he causes.
The
opposite solution is to abandon violence completely. The innocence and
submission of Jesus Christ in the face of violence has been enshrined in
Christianity for nearly two thousand years. By this act Jesus, according to Father
God's plan, has taken upon Himself, no more or less than, the sins of all men.
It is said that the human Jesus experienced that he was rejected by God the
Father. True followers of Jesus Christ should follow his example. Violence is
overcome by giving up violence. Without going farther to the many perspectives
of renouncing violence and self-defense (complete submission), the victim of
ill-treatment can find an echo in these teachings. Let this world go its way,
the experiencer moves into eternal peace as the mood is shown in Verdi's final theme
in Aida. The non-violent are rewarded in the metaphysical worlds.
3. The truth
The most
positive consequence of stigmatizing a child as a liar and the companions of stigmatization
such as disregarding, blaming, punishing, intimidation, demanding to believe a
certain idea of man or worldview, and belittling the child’s own actions, may
be his or her burning desire for truth. The child feels that he or she is being
treated unfairly and that his or her thoughts and actions are being interpreted
incorrectly. Indeed, he concludes to become uncompromisingly truthful in his
true heart. He begins to wonder about the basis of his own (sense) world of
experience. He is, naturally, looking for the idea of man and worldview system
to believe in. He is after an order for false interpretations, contradictions,
and distressing chaos. All available doctrines and belief system turn out,
after scrutinizing, lame, incomplete, or flawed in one and often in many ways.
As he grows up, he may be disappointed to find that he has, too often and for
too long time, been left in the traps of the doctrine he had become familiar with,
even though he has for a longer period realized that the attentions of the
doctrine have on wrong areas of knowledge. Wrong conclusions are drawn from imaginary
or erroneous facts. Habit and intellectual laziness may prevent one’s conscious
loosening from the erroneous models of explanation of the world. Fear of
punishment can also prevent detachment. Being approved is such a valuable
experience that one can tolerate ideas and interpretations that conflict with
one’s own ideas as long as one becomes accepted as a person.
Meditation
has been recommended for the self-help of the wounded and left alone. However,
practice guides and instructors in the field may be superficial. Meditation,
even if performed with dedicated competence, is not always a sufficient or
correct way to gain truth and knowledge. In the best exercises, things are also
observed with mind’s eyes and broken down and combined. An important part is
also taking a third-person perspective on your own experiencing and thinking
self. Exercises develop self-discipline and perseverance. Exercises can
occasionally relieve fear, panic, anxiety, and pain. Therapeutic exercises
should assess misconceptions and misinterpretations that one has done,
especially about painful interpersonal issues. (On meditation and the biological
mechanisms of fear reduction, see Hölzel B. K. et al 2016). The tendency to
panic caused by abuse does not very well agree to stay in their fields, but
without prior notice can pop into place in meditation exercises, impairing
concentration and analysis. And there he is in fear and terror, the peace has retreated.
Adopting a
scientific perspective is the surest way to acquire new knowledge and assess
truthfulness. Scientific study focuses on the research literature selected for
a study, the investigator learns how to collect data in the chosen field, which
(mathematical) methods of analysis to choose, how to draw conclusions, and
evaluate the reliability of conclusions. The fervent seeker of truth longs, in
my mind, ultimately for the king of science, that is, the philosophy of
science. He can question the starting points (premises) of thought experiment
or real-world research, exchange them for others, re-model data collection and
analytics, and then do the same again with new premises.
4. Telepathy
Ignoring,
belittling, and coercing can lead to an inability to say and express one’s
feelings to loved ones as well as anyone. According to telepathy theory,
thoughts and emotions can be transferred between people extrasensory, that is,
without known physical senses, the most important of which are hearing and
sight. In his or her loneliness and inability to engage in meaningful
interaction, the young person may seek to resort to an easier way to
communicate; he could rely on the ability to perceive another’s thoughts and
feelings directly without caring words and visual perceptions. Similarly,
others could detect the movements of his soul and spirit. Proponents of
telepathy theory argue that telepathy is a skill that can be learned and
developed. However, in developmental exercises, the most obvious danger is to
drift into the world of imagination. The need for reality testing can threaten
to be overlooked. I will not delve in this presentation into the success of
telepathy after the exercises.
Conclusions
I am by no
means claiming that the reasons for the events and experiences I have
presented, and the interpretations that follow them, could certainly or even
apparently be the ones presented by me. They are possible, intuitively true
stories to a man himself. The explanatory factors and explanators I present are
extremely complex and at many different levels of roughness of phenomena; from
the molecular level to psychology, sociology, and subjective experiences. One
thing is certain, however: without the absolute unconditional and unreserved
acceptance of every human being by default, the irrevocable recognition of
human dignity, and the realization of empathic social interaction (at least in
thought), all reflection and drawing of conclusions is futile.
The purpose
of my presentation is not to describe in a versatile way the positive and
negative factors of a child's and young person's life, but to focus on their
disadvantageous (environmental) factors, which may probably have an effect on
described parts of the idea of man and worldview. If a child were to encounter
only the described unfavorable factors, his or her development and future would
become sad. Versatile positive factors are needed for an individual to develop
into an independent actor of his or her life. A child has astounding, outright surprising,
innate ability and power to absorb information from the impulses of the
environment, to process the information, and to transform the contents of
information into actions that promotes one’s survival and well-being.
Man is born
with a very undeveloped central nervous system. Long childhood and adolescence
shape the brain into an information machine that is suitable for the
environment and exploits its environment. Traumatic experiences produce known
psychopathological conditions as well as ways to process information. Anxiety,
fear, panic, compulsive toughts and actions are such. They cause subjective
suffering and make it difficult to adapt to the environment and succeed in
life. These experiences affect the construction of the idea of man and
worldview of a child and a young person, as well as an adult. Clear
neurobiological and physiological equivalents can be found for the conditions
and ideas.
It is of
paramount importance to pay the attention of human beings as well as society
(political decision-making, education, consideration of scientific achievements
in decision-making) in children’s development and the promotion of well-proportioned
development, nurturing, and education. There has been a delightful progress in
the field during the last decades in Finland and at least in most countries in
the West. Many third sector actors are involved in children’s well-balanced
upbringing, equality, non-violence, and access to the knowledge of the truth.
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